How not to take things personally? | Frederik Imbo | TEDxMechelen

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Frederik Imbo studied theatre at the Royal Conservatory of Ghent and has acted in lots of television series. He founded Imboorling and now has over 15 years' experience in stimulating and supporting people. With the aim of improving their communication skills Frederik gives presentations, workshops, training courses and personal coaching sessions to anyone prepared to make their two ears available.

This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at www.ted.com/tedx

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  • Anwaar ALRIGHEEWHUY

    Anwaar ALRIGHEEWHUY

    Pred 7 hodinami

    It is that greatest video i have been watched,He was so authentic sense . It is helped me really thank you sir .

  • Monique Naidoo

    Monique Naidoo

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    Jesus loves you all ♥️

  • bandana panwar

    bandana panwar

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    amazing!!!!!!!!!!!

  • your name

    your name

    Pred dňom

    China is developing new viruses while democrats focus on Trump and Jan 6th. Joe Biden and china are laughing at America.Defunding police is a way to fund a Gestapo. Democrats have destroyed their own cities. WAKE UP

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  • Mhara Clara Lds

    Mhara Clara Lds

    Pred dňom

    The last part touched me and I almost wanted to cry.. i will always keep my value! Thank so much for this message sir!❤️ God bless you more!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hello Mhara Clara Lds, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Nicolas Williams

    Nicolas Williams

    Pred dňom

    Not about me.thrown off balance

  • Nicolas Williams

    Nicolas Williams

    Pred dňom

    Me to we.intention .

  • Gabriel Bruzzi

    Gabriel Bruzzi

    Pred dňom

    This lesson is great for all couples...especially husbands and wives!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hello Gabriel, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • jane andrade

    jane andrade

    Pred dňom

    PROVÉRBIOS BÍBLICOS 25-17

    SEJA RARO OS TEUS PÉS NA CASA DO TEU PÓXIMO,

    PARA QUE NÃO SE ENFADE DE TI E PASSE A TI ODIAR.

  • thanos

    thanos

    Pred dňom

    the opposite of mj

  • Gift Effiong

    Gift Effiong

    Pred dňom

    I can’t forget this in a hurry Fredrick, it impacted my heart. I will rewatch and post to many. Thank you 🙏🏻

    • Gift Effiong

      Gift Effiong

      Pred 16 hodinami

      @Frederik Imbo Thank you Fredrick.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hello Gift Effiong, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Vampierre Bytes

    Vampierre Bytes

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    The mammoth tiger thankfully guard because taxicab timely drum amidst a better example. frantic, evasive lunge

  • chinmay chandraunshuh

    chinmay chandraunshuh

    Pred dňom

    wonderful ted talk, beautifully articulated.

    • chinmay chandraunshuh

      chinmay chandraunshuh

      Pred 15 hodinami

      @Frederik Imbo surely Frederick! as a matter of fact, it was my dad who shared your video with me and my mom. we both found it incredible! I shall share it with as many friends as I can! now I can think much more selflessly after listening to your ideas about anger management and self-control. Thanks for your message, and thanks once again for this beautiful ted talk of yours!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hello Chinmay, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Rose Link

    Rose Link

    Pred dňom

    Great info! Am I the only one that heard a high pitch sound on this recording?

    • Rose Link

      Rose Link

      Pred 14 hodinami

      Hi thanks for your response. I heard it on my cellphone , my headphones and a portable Bluetooth speaker. I was able to get through it though. Thank you.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hi Rose Link. Sorry to read that there was a high pitched, annoying beep that disturbed you so much. I actually have no idea where it came from. Perhaps you could try listening to my presentation from a different device and tell me if you still have the same thing? It's strange. Only a minority of people apparently hear that irritating sound. Hopefully you can listen to my story properly on another device.

  • Beksultan Sadirov

    Beksultan Sadirov

    Pred dňom

    You should understand that “it’s just a business”

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hi Beksultan. Yes, and just because it's just a business, we shouldn't take things personally.

  • Deucez

    Deucez

    Pred dňom

    Am I the only one that thinks he sounds like the moon from the Mighty Boosh? 👀

  • Nicky Empress

    Nicky Empress

    Pred dňom

    Interesting motivational speech but I didn't like the fact that you put the money in your mouth.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hello Nicky, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I can comfort you. the talk was launched in March of 2020, but was recorded in February of 2019. So long before corona! And the note was sanitized beforehand. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • stillettastill

    stillettastill

    Pred dňom

    Oh this trick with money was really good in the end of his speech. Nice presentation and important subject to speak about it👍

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 21 hodinou

      Hello stillettastill! Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Liam Tarbet

    Liam Tarbet

    Pred 2 dňami

    Laddd

  • Jacob perezy

    Jacob perezy

    Pred 2 dňami

    This dude sounds like shrek and donkeys baby

  • anthonysilard

    anthonysilard

    Pred 2 dňami

    Such a great video, so important to address this issue.

  • Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz

    Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz

    Pred 2 dňami

    04:15 Anh là…. 🐋

  • Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz

    Khánh Chi 1000K Vào Timbanvn xyz

    Pred 2 dňami

    05:25 Em là cô gái mặc áo xám. 🕦

  • Doctor Strong

    Doctor Strong

    Pred 2 dňami

    James Faulkner.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 2 dňami

      haha! I'll add that name to the list of celebrities I seem to resemble. According to some people I look like Kevin Debruyne (soccer player) Boris Becker (tennis player) Peter schmeichel (soccer goalkeeper) TinTin (cartoon character) Prince Harry Arthur Weasley (a character in Harry Potter) Mitchell Pritchett (Modern Family) Sebastian vettel (Formule 1 pilot) Kevin McKidd (actor in Grey's anatomy) Jonny Bairstow (cricket player)

  • Yuvaveer Anudeep

    Yuvaveer Anudeep

    Pred 3 dňami

    Oops everywhere the talk is referring to he/him, feminists will screw him

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 2 dňami

      haha! If they do, now they know how not to take it personally!

  • Obert Nyambe

    Obert Nyambe

    Pred 3 dňami

    my first ted talk that i listened to. thanks Mr Frederik.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 2 dňami

      Hi Obert! What an honour! Thank you. I hope you liked it.

  • Thuỷ Nguyễn

    Thuỷ Nguyễn

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    21/7/2021 bắt đầu luyện nghe t.anh từ video này💪💪

  • pacer21

    pacer21

    Pred 3 dňami

    His last point was the most powerful one that I hope to remember going forward.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 2 dňami

      Hello Pacer21, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Nivedita Ghosh

    Nivedita Ghosh

    Pred 3 dňami

    Amazing loved it

    • Nivedita Ghosh

      Nivedita Ghosh

      Pred 2 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo it was very inspiring n yess when life gives u reality check you r tested every time in this way really how to not take all things personally no matter it's personal or professional one should follow encourage inspire oneself to try new things learn but not to get disappointed 😊

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 2 dňami

      Hello Niveditha, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Onore!

    Onore!

    Pred 3 dňami

    What a load of bull
    A referree to learn to not taking stuff personally?
    Just go work at Macdonalds

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 2 dňami

      Maybe that's even a faster and more difficult way to learn it. I agree.

  • Denisha Jodie

    Denisha Jodie

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    The sulky aquarius naturally hover because stepmother reversely kneel out a cute invention. miscreant, obscene relative

  • Peter Meyer

    Peter Meyer

    Pred 3 dňami

    - Someone, who doesnt take things personally: Someone, who doesnt care at all, maybe a psychopath.
    - Someone, who takes all things personally: An egocentric believer in social rights and social/emotional intelligence.
    - Healthy/firm person (or generally born before 2000): Probably doesnt need to be told, what to take personally and what not.
    Frederik Imbo gets other words and things wrong also:
    - Taking things personally is not the same as considering things important! The guy 2:10 in the car behind yours is addressing specifically you, so its correct to take his angry message personally. But that doesnt mean one should consider this message or him to be of importance.
    Same goes for most of the other examples he tells. Most of them are examples of things, which ought to be taken personally simply because they are and wouldnt make any sense otherwise.
    - Beeing right is not the same as insisting on beeing right! "Do you want to be right?" Well, dont you? And dont you want others to strive for that, too? Really? Isnt beeing right important and good? What about that referee-example and why should there be a referee, if he didnt care about the game to be played correctly? What if a pilot or a chirurg doesnt care about beeing right anymore? Who wants to be in that plane or under that scalpel? Does anyone really want to live in a society with a large proportion of people not acknowledging what is right? Also, he gives no explanation for his strange conclusion, that one can experience more harmony in the presence of people who dont give a f*ck about anything.
    Insisting on beeing right or in other words avoiding to even think of beeing wrong is a matter of the ego as is going on stage and acting or giving a presentation like this.
    Its totally ok to feed the ego for beeing right as long as one cares to be right in the first place.

  • Flemming Lund

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    • James Ray

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      I'm proud to hear people talk about good jobs done by mrs kate, this has been my seven successive cycle of trade with kate and i must say i don't want to stop anytime soon. Trading has been very good

  • Peaceful Phrases

    Peaceful Phrases

    Pred 4 dňami

    Such an amazing msg. Eye opener.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Peaceful Phrases, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Ian Napier

    Ian Napier

    Pred 4 dňami

    Thank you

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      With pleasure Ian.

  • tobbe0zero

    tobbe0zero

    Pred 4 dňami

    Man, that first example was a horrible one considering the points he's trying to make. If you are inviting someone to go to the movies and they decline, claiming they have to work and then go to dinner with other friends, that is something you should definitely take personally. There's no "oh maybe it's because of this thing or that". They have lied to you instead of just telling the truth and saying they had other plans. If you don't take that personally something is very wrong with you because that is pretty much the definition of someone doing something against you personally. The same goes for the "looking at you and then laughing" example.

    • tobbe0zero

      tobbe0zero

      Pred 3 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo I mean, I can understand what you're saying and the point you are trying to make, and for most of your talk I agree with you and think it is good advice. It's just that I don't think the specific examples I mentioned help proove your point. I understand wanting to see things from the positive side but I believe there is a limit to that, when someone lies to you like that it I believe it should make you angry. If they had a good reason and a positive intention to do something else they would've explained it to you and probably apologized. In which case, great! it was probably not something against you personally. But if they then instead went behind your back and tried to hide it from you that is a breach of trust and I really don't see how there's any positive intention in that nor how that is something you shouldn't take personally, seeing as it is very much directed at you, personally

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hi Tobbe0zero. I'am sad reading your message. Even when someone lies to you, you shouldn't take it personally. Why not? First of all, because it does not make you happy. It makes you angry. Secondly because the other one who lies, has a positive intention. They just don't dare to be honest. Not taking something personally does however not mean that I agree with them and still want to be friends. My talk only explains how you not take something personally. Nothing more. Nothing less.

  • Nightshade

    Nightshade

    Pred 4 dňami

    I’m currently editing a novel that I’ve been working on since 2018. I finally got an editor, and she was super nice—her comments and critiques were, too. But as soon as I got the manuscript back with the critique, I lost all motivation to get it published. This video really helped me realize that I wasn’t showing myself empathy for the smallest mistakes. Thank you ☺️

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hi Nightshade. Good luck with the publication of your book.

  • Proby Rhymes

    Proby Rhymes

    Pred 4 dňami

    Turns out the whole Dilemma is just all about our Ego Tripping, this was enlightening

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hi Proby Rhymes! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

    • hope Line

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      Herbal medication is the best ,am so happy to meet DR Ropopor herbal on you-tube who cured my herpes totally you are the best .........

  • Jennifer Gallegos

    Jennifer Gallegos

    Pred 4 dňami

    That was excellent..especially the ending

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Jennifer. Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Eloisa Añasco Villavicencio

    Eloisa Añasco Villavicencio

    Pred 4 dňami

    Wooowww!!! This guy is awesome!! the very best! Loved him!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Eloisa, (funny fact: I grew up in Sint-Eloois-Vijve ... It makes me think of your name) Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • MotoScientist

    MotoScientist

    Pred 4 dňami

    Another aspect of this (particularly with the football referee'ing) is imposter syndrome. As a new referee, having never played football previously, feeling like you don't belong or don't know enough/aren't experienced enough, its very easy to then take things personally.
    I'm the same. I'm an academic researcher and imposter syndrome is awful (and very real!). Also as a rugby coach, I never played rugby..who am I to teach others how to play!? I have been on many courses, and know I can coach..but still, I take comments personally when i'm on the side of the pitch with the kids playing, and I'm directing them.. the parent's say things they think I don't hear

    • MotoScientist

      MotoScientist

      Pred 3 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo thanks Frederik. I would also like to thank you for a fantastic talk. It was very close to my heart too, I get these feelings often. Its very comforting when others also experience it, to know I'm not alone or being oversensitive. But you also gave some really excellent tips to overcome it, which I am grateful for.. and intend to put into practice! Take care ☺

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hi MotoScientist. Thank you so much for your message!!! I get so many messages here, mostly because people want to thank me for my talk. But you... really gave me something very valuable. You taught me the Imposter syndrome. Thank you for sharing your small story so openly with me! Good luck with coaching the kids on the pitch!

  • amine salim

    amine salim

    Pred 5 dňami

    Nice messages

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Amine, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Muzeem khan

    Muzeem khan

    Pred 5 dňami

    The comment section is taking the crowd's lack of reaction personally - on behalf of the speaker.. There should be a Ted talk to deal with that..

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      hahaha Muzeem! Good point!

  • レイ

    レイ

    Pred 5 dňami

    how to not

    • レイ

      レイ

      Pred 5 dňami

      how to***

  • JHON ALEXANDER Rincon

    JHON ALEXANDER Rincon

    Pred 5 dňami

    Al final si le dio los veinte euros??

  • Jill Allerton

    Jill Allerton

    Pred 5 dňami

    Wow this hits the proverbial nail on the head. Thank you so much.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Jill! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Divyanshi Agrawal

    Divyanshi Agrawal

    Pred 5 dňami

    Thank you so much for this talk , it was awesome. It came to me at the very right time. Mainly the last few minutes.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Divyanshi! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • shazadster

    shazadster

    Pred 5 dňami

    Michael Jordan takes this personally.

    • shazadster

      shazadster

      Pred 3 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo I feel so good that you replied :)))))))))

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Haha, indeed. If you know him personally, send him a personal message. At the same time; Michael Jordan was just trying to do his best. He was trying to deal with his unmet need for recognition. He just wanted to be appreciated.

  • Monman Thecom

    Monman Thecom

    Pred 5 dňami

    In this world, emotional intelligence is very much needed. Hope people actually give some thought about it.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hi Monman. Very much needed indeed; both emotional intelligence and empathy.

    • Monman Thecom

      Monman Thecom

      Pred 3 dňami

      @Peter Meyer I agree with the Intelligence + caring, driven by empathy. Good point

    • Peter Meyer

      Peter Meyer

      Pred 3 dňami

      You probably mean, this world needs people, who are both intelligent and carring driven by empathy. Or do you mean, that one needs to be both intelligent and aware of other peoples emotions to get along in this world? Anyways, emotional intelligence doesnt exist. Its a false categorization. Its just as nonsensical as speaking of monday intelligence. And btw. abstraction and categorization form a category of intelligence, which is worth to remember everytime one hears someone talk about social/emotional intelligence.

  • Hudson Burgess

    Hudson Burgess

    Pred 5 dňami

    The ratty brandy generically soothe because dogsled cytomorphologically consider up a mountainous texture. strange, ten question

  • Sabina wtf

    Sabina wtf

    Pred 5 dňami

    muy buena la ted talk pero el final está copiado de Merlí, una serie catalana

  • Robert Sinnerman

    Robert Sinnerman

    Pred 5 dňami

    Screaming pirch at 2kHz. What clown is responsible for completely ruining the audio on this otherwise wonderful video?

  • you and i are like my buttcheeks after all the shit that goes between us we always get back together

    you and i are like my buttcheeks after all the shit that goes between us we always get back together

    Pred 5 dňami

    bro is this TED talk implying i take things personally? excuse me?!!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      haha!

  • Shahadah Bobby

    Shahadah Bobby

    Pred 5 dňami

    I love this and understand and agree with everything but what if you’re right what if all the things that you’re thinking is true what do you do then? Just let it go?

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      When you're 100% right and the other one has another opinion or tells you that you're lying, even then you don't have to take it personally. Just speak up and let it go for the rest. you KNOW that you're right. No need to prove it. Live in harmony with yourself.

  • Dita Wahyu

    Dita Wahyu

    Pred 6 dňami

    Thanks Mechelen, you did point out the questions that has bothered me so much when I feel bad while being criticized: because it touches the nerve from the past. Thanks

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Dita, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Paula

    Paula

    Pred 6 dňami

    Wow - that last bit with the money - worth every minute of this talk just to get to that bit.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Paula, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Shawthan

    Shawthan

    Pred 6 dňami

    Michael Jordan should watch this.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Haha, indeed Shawthan. If you know him personally, send him a personal message. At the same time; Michael Jordan was just trying to do his best. He was trying to deal with his unmet need for recognition. He just wanted to be appreciated.

  • Liam C

    Liam C

    Pred 6 dňami

    15:14 Summary of talk

  • Muhammad Osama Qureshi

    Muhammad Osama Qureshi

    Pred 6 dňami

    I have watch this 2 times before and now its my third time . It really help's me on "how not to take thing personally".

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Muhammad. Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you, to that extent that you even watched this 3 times!!! Wow. Thx. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Noe Sullivan

    Noe Sullivan

    Pred 6 dňami

    The mammoth thread lily pack because sphynx realistically include near a nosy block. abortive, unusual name

  • Alberto Garcia

    Alberto Garcia

    Pred 6 dňami

    I believe that people should be kind to each other. I take it personally daily it wears me out to the point of depression.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hi Alberto. Thank you for sharing this. I feel joyful and hopeful reading your first sentence. When I read your second phrase, I feel sad. Please try to protect yourself by not taking things personally if people are not kind to you and others.

  • Saniya Idrisi

    Saniya Idrisi

    Pred 6 dňami

    The ending hit me hard, didn't expect that coming damn.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Saniya, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Jia Hui Zhou

    Jia Hui Zhou

    Pred 6 dňami

    🥰🥰🥰

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Thank you Jia!

  • Haleem Abdurahman

    Haleem Abdurahman

    Pred 6 dňami

    How on earth did I listen to this till the end...? I am taking this personally.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      haha Haleem. Please don't. Otherwise; watch again!

  • Sumie Rega

    Sumie Rega

    Pred 6 dňami

    I needed this right now I take things too personal and I hate it I just have a painful past

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Sumie, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Teresa Olofson

    Teresa Olofson

    Pred 6 dňami

    the notion to acknowledge First my feelings is a Game Changer!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hi Teresa! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you, especially the point of acknowledging your feelings. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • khaled elian

    khaled elian

    Pred 6 dňami

    فعلا رائع هذا الشي يحصل معي على طول
    you are ammazing ,this thing is happen s with me daily.

    • khaled elian

      khaled elian

      Pred 3 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo I am very grateful for your kind words Thank you so much Dear.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Khaled, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Isis H

    Isis H

    Pred 6 dňami

    Very beautiful speech

    • Isis H

      Isis H

      Pred 3 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo Thank you so much for your kind words!! I'm practising already 👏👏👏👏👏👏 Thank you for sharing the knowledge ❤❤❤❤

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 3 dňami

      Hello Isis, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Himalie Manathunga

    Himalie Manathunga

    Pred 7 dňami

    fantastic speech

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hello Himalie, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Teresa Olofson

    Teresa Olofson

    Pred 7 dňami

    rrrrrrrrr yes exhusting!

  • Teresa Olofson

    Teresa Olofson

    Pred 7 dňami

    IM SICK of BEING IGNORED!!!!!!!

    • Teresa Olofson

      Teresa Olofson

      Pred 6 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo i am trying to remember to acknowledge my feelings and or acknowledge what is happening...this is cutting out a place for me to feel/identify (SLOW DOWN CONNECT) so i can get help and find a way to use the Marshal Rosenburg and others communication skills...using those Impact Statements...I've been to these communicatino seminars that teach the exact same ideas..that its NEVER about you and have been working on it for many years..so its just so helpful to find like mainded channels like YOURS so a HUGE THANK and i will keep endevoring to SLOW DOWN ENOUGH to make the proper impact thank u for asking and offering the BEST SUPPORT :) CHEERs ) WITh LOVE thank u for Your Passion to COMMUNICATE CONSCIOUSLY! WHAT A GOOD WORLD after all :)

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hi Teresa, tell me, how come that you feel like this? The question is; what can you do about it?

  • kS3big ksudjoht

    kS3big ksudjoht

    Pred 7 dňami

    So you come home and you would like to wind down and share your experience, but you find your wife cheating on you with the mail man. Don't take that personally.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Indeed. It's hard, but is has nothing to do with you personally. Apparently your wife has other needs.

  • Sensza

    Sensza

    Pred 7 dňami

    Don't live your life through the eyes of others!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Very true Sensza!

  • the black spot

    the black spot

    Pred 7 dňami

    Sounds like a great attitude to have when you are certain that no matter what you say, 50 percent of the people you say it to will be disgusted with you.🤣 I am still listening to the second half of the strategy. I've had recognition and not had it ,but I've never wanted for it, except as a child.....oh sheepdip.🤣🤣🤣🤣 I had to add this , currency fails, if this is a super true comparison then one time you won't keep your value, at death your value will either go up or down or both . Time either will or won't be a factor . Perhaps your value at death won't be realized for tens of thousands of years?

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Thank you.

  • pam allred

    pam allred

    Pred 7 dňami

    So true

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Thanks Pam Allred!

  • Darnell Rotz

    Darnell Rotz

    Pred 7 dňami

    The grumpy cinema symptomatically slap because politician pharmacokinetically post beneath a willing power. knowing, halting crow

  • sheepy leepy

    sheepy leepy

    Pred 7 dňami

    - this needs to be shared all oveer the world and stuff

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hello Sheepy Leepy! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Chris Abbott

    Chris Abbott

    Pred 7 dňami

    Brother Imbo thanks...

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      You're welcome brother Chris!

  • Logan Ram

    Logan Ram

    Pred 7 dňami

    WOW!!!!!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hello Logan! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • العقل الباطن المجهول

    العقل الباطن المجهول

    Pred 7 dňami

    Why not be in your videos Translate to Arabic, thank you for your entrepreneurship

    • العقل الباطن المجهول

      العقل الباطن المجهول

      Pred 6 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo I am happy for your question, my question and my answer, thank you

    • كرم الامير

      كرم الامير

      Pred 6 dňami

      I also agreed with you in this view we hope that they take this

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hi العقل الباطن المجهول, The subs are made by volunteers. When there's an Arabic person who wants to do this, I'd be glad!

  • WindowsTutorials

    WindowsTutorials

    Pred 7 dňami

    This guy is god for me

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      super!

  • ce.av1 AV

    ce.av1 AV

    Pred 7 dňami

    Nice!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hello ce.av1 AV, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Rod Sota

    Rod Sota

    Pred 7 dňami

    The upset nurse habitually chew because armchair immunologically disapprove times a fantastic dugout. uptight, dramatic cat

  • Natalie Ford

    Natalie Ford

    Pred 7 dňami

    This is a beautiful talk - although for me it only really gets good at 12:30 minutes. That last line is perfect.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hello Nathalie, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Amol Singh

    Amol Singh

    Pred 7 dňami

    Do you want to be right or happy?

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      That's the spirit Amol!

  • Shinobou Kocho

    Shinobou Kocho

    Pred 7 dňami

    Why do people take things personally? Because:
    -They want to prove something
    -They will be embarrassed in front of many people when they lose.
    -Lossing a game(specifically if your team or you got embarrassed)=loosing of one's dignity

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hi Shinobou, true! It's an ego story.

  • lucky🤍

    lucky🤍

    Pred 7 dňami

    Goddddddd, this was sooooo incredible!! Especially the last part! Lovedddd it

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hello Lucky, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Kate Velasco

    Kate Velasco

    Pred 7 dňami

    thank youuuu 💛

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 6 dňami

      Hello Kate, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Myfanwy ES McLean

    Myfanwy ES McLean

    Pred 8 dňami

    You will always keep your value.

    • Myfanwy ES McLean

      Myfanwy ES McLean

      Pred 7 dňami

      @Frederik Imbo You heard me, you saw me! Thank you.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 7 dňami

      That's the spirit Myfanwy!

  • Myfanwy ES McLean

    Myfanwy ES McLean

    Pred 8 dňami

    NO. 18766 I forget, We forget that so many good times are with one another 'we'. I also aways dream about being in the 'we'. Am sad in the 'I', but not always. I and We.

  • Gris Amaro

    Gris Amaro

    Pred 8 dňami

    I clicked because I thought it was Prince Harry!😂

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 7 dňami

      Haha! You're not the first one who thought this.

  • Tartaria

    Tartaria

    Pred 8 dňami

    Busquen la página y canal oficial del Foro Económico Mundial y lean el informe "El Gran Reset" escrito por Klaus Schwab. Busquen los objetivos de la agenda 2030 y agenda 21 de la ONU.
    Busquen el Evento 201 (simulacro de pandemia) publicado en octubre de 2019.
    Busquen el Ciberpolygon (simulacro de ciberataque global) se realizó el 9 de julio 2021.
    Todo fué preparado y están preparando lo que acontecerá los próximos meses.
    Inoculación obligatoria, dirán que son necesarias más dosis, discriminación a los no inoculados, medidas más restrictivas, nuevos confinamientos, nuevas variantes, mutaciones del virus...

  • Caroline SharesA Topic

    Caroline SharesA Topic

    Pred 8 dňami

    Wow, very encouraging information. I just subscribed to your channel...lots of important information here; since, I am just starting my YouTube channel a couple of month ago. Thank you!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 7 dňami

      Hello Caroline! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Yashvardhan Raghuvanshi

    Yashvardhan Raghuvanshi

    Pred 8 dňami

    I like it!

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 7 dňami

      Hello Yashvardhan Raghuvanshi, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Mike

    Mike

    Pred 8 dňami

    @2:00 I had a buddy move to Colorado springs about 7 years ago and first week there he said someone was shot and killed for cutting another person off,.. in this case the person really was hunted in the end,. Even if you don't take something personally, doesn't mean the person next to you won't take it very personal,. Look at the riots over the incidences that caused them,. Thousand took it personally and didn't even live in the same country. I don't feel we have free speech anymore because people take things more personal than intended or just too personally for no reason. A guy could break into your house and kill a family member and run and the cops could shoot him,. In most normal cases people would be serves the criminal right or what did he expect was gonna happen after you kill someone. And then there's cases where people think just because he killed someone that the cops shouldn't have killed the criminal. Taking it Personally is in the perspective of the person and most people like to blow things way out of proportion, like the covid pandemic,. The Spanish flu now that was a pandemic. Covid was just a bad flu season,. Trust me heart disease and cancer killed way more and that's not a pandemic yet

  • Meinrad Social

    Meinrad Social

    Pred 8 dňami

    The final message came the best it could. It deserves my tears of satisfaction.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 7 dňami

      Hello Meinrad Social, Thank you for your kind note! I'm glad you liked the end of my TEDx talk with the 20 Euro bill and the fact that your value always remains the same no matter what people do or say to you. So thanks for watching until the end! I wish you good luck in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and will give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's okay. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Katherine Schindler

    Katherine Schindler

    Pred 8 dňami

    Wow! this is outstanding. Thank you Frederik for teaching us how to not take things personally which has been a thorn in my side since I can remember. I have been working on it but this information helps me to grow even more in this fault I deal with, thank you so much.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 8 dňami

      Hello Katherine! Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Inge Dom

    Inge Dom

    Pred 8 dňami

    Dankjewel Esther!

  • Kim M.H.

    Kim M.H.

    Pred 8 dňami

    Not so easy with family. Great points for life in general. Thank you.
    My husband is a soccer coach, my daughter played all through school too, so got a good giggle at this. ⚽️🙂.

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 8 dňami

      Haha Kim! What a family! I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo

  • Vasanth Vibin

    Vasanth Vibin

    Pred 8 dňami

    Thank u for the much needed speech 😇

    • Frederik Imbo

      Frederik Imbo

      Pred 8 dňami

      Hello Vasanth, Thank you so much for your kind message. I'm glad to read that watching my TEDx talk was valuable to you. I wish you much success in putting the insights and tips into practice. Sometimes it will work and give you a sense of peace and victory over yourself. At other times it will be less easy and frustrating. That's ok. Then be gentle with yourself and most of all be proud of the progress you are making. I encourage you! Please share the TEDx talk with your friends and colleagues. The more people I can reach, the more people will live in harmony with themselves and others. From the bottom of my heart, Frederik Imbo